There is no need to beat around the bush on this topic. Men are taking more fingering, dick replicas, and butt plugs than women. Sex seems not to have rules anymore. It is either the world is changing or the older we get, the more we are becoming open to the endless possibilities of sex.
A few years back males wouldn’t openly admit to giving oral sex. Now that I am a bit older it is now a requirement before even meeting the parents or getting parents' approval to date.
Musical artists such as Jeezy “Let your man be the freak, he can eat it up.” and Juvenile “Lil Momma I love some pussy but I’m not licking." made it very clear that women were supposed to give oral sex while men made it a privilege if they performed on you.
Back then you had to be the main woman in their lives. However, when Lil Wayne (Lollipop) and Kevin Gates (Luv Bug) came out to say it was cool to eat, you saw a shift in the hip-hop culture that express the beauty in giving and receiving oral sex.
Oral sex is only the tip of the iceberg as we have seen the roles and identities of females and males change. I must give thanks to the LGBTQ movement for making it easier for males and females that have been hiding from the judgment of society, to come out and simply be free within themselves.
Men have seemed to be more comfortable polishing their fingernails, wearing feminine clothing, wearing pearls, and even makeup without regard to how the world would respond. I think males used those very things to open the door, even more, to tap into their feminine sides.
While in high school, there was a young lady that was dating an older man. She came to a group of us sitting at the table in laughter. She stated that she couldn’t believe the dude let her do it. She was curious as to how far the guy would let her go while she was performing oral sex on him. She stated, "she massaged his anal and rubbed on the hole. The guy didn’t budge or seem uncomfortable. Before she knew it, she was penetrating him with her fingers and he was taking it like a pro.
The male g-spot is no different than a woman’s g-spot and the results of ejaculation can be excellent if done correctly. Men are known to be dominant in the bedroom until they meet a woman who has tapped into her masculine side and will give them a run for their money.
The argument is once a guy is penetrated by anything, could he still consider himself heterosexual?
Will a man desire the real thing after losing his anal virginity?
I am an open-minded person and refuse to judge anyone who desires things that are pleasing to them as long as they are not hurting anyone in the process (My favorite saying). Some people will respond as though this act is an abomination to God but so is everything else, we do.
I will never talk about anything I haven't experienced or survived through
One guy (mid-40s) responded when asked about reversing roles, "he loved his wife enough to please her in the way she desired." He did not want her seeking things in other places and wanted him to be all that she needed and wanted.
One guy (mid-40s) enjoyed getting fingered but made a joke about using a dildo while the female was away.
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